This is my last post.
The man and I have achieved what we set out to do: change our lives.
Thank you for following us on our journey and encouraging us (mostly) and caring for us (always).
The man and I are very different beasts. He jumps in boots and all, with hardly a thought about the implications further down the track. I am the polar opposite: I plan and think and overthink before I take the first cautious step to alter things that no longer are making me happy.
The step to move away from Auckland to a smaller place was always a dream for us. To have a shed and some land was the ultimate goal. We spent years discussing it and more than one road trip exploring areas that might meet our needs.
But in spite of saying when I started ‘Skidding towards retirement’ that we were going to make the change within two years, we still may have been living the same old Auckland life now, while paying lip service to our dream.
Except for one thing: I found myself in a stressful situation at work. One that no matter how hard I tried, and I did try mightily hard to sort it, I couldn’t solve.
At the time, it was distressing. I had many close colleagues I worked with who I respected and enjoyed and who supported me at the time – and I am sure that wasn’t easy, as I was pretty wound up. Thank you. I also had a community I knew and loved.
I was also well paid.
It wasn’t enough.
Thoughts of escaping filled my day. Overthinking Heather threw caution to the wind. Our ‘maybe’ plan to leave Auckland was brought forward.
We put houses on the market and bought at auction with a long term settlement.
Meanwhile, I ditched the job. Heart breaking at the time, but strangely liberating.
We have now been in our new home for 18 months. Our home has the shed and the land. It is also surrounded by beautiful beaches. A bonus.
I have a job I like and the man is working in a boat yard. I am back studying too.
We are forming friendships up here, while still retaining close contact with family and friends in Auckland.
Change is hard. No doubt. But in this case, it was the best move ever.
Simply: life is amazeballs
Au revoir , Readers.
x Heather and Grant