Last night the man and I went on a wee adventure – we stayed on our boat moored in the marina. Odd, I can hear you saying, that is hardly sailing. And you would be right. However, there was a valid reason behind it; we needed to charge the yacht’s batteries and this was going to take oodles of time, as they were spectacularly flat. Staying overnight was, therefore, the sensible thing to do.
It was nice to be aboard again – it has been a number of months since I have visited, and in the interim, the man has made a bit more progress getting her ready for the market. The middle cabin which was converted to the double berth last year is well on the way to being finished and, if I do say so myself, is looking very, very classy.
Now this is all well and good, except it raises a few issues. You see the more the boat is upgraded, the more we consider keeping it! Part of us thinks: why shouldn’t we enjoy the benefit of the more luxurious beast rather than someone else?
This is not a new feeling; we do seem to be people who do the things we always had intended to do, when we decide to sell whatever it is. And yes, this always makes it a struggle to let go.
In the particular case of selling the boat, the man and I have also had an orchestrated delegation to contend with: the children love going away on the yacht, and the grandchild too and they have made it crystal clear that they are not happy for us to sell it.
Now we are the first to admit that taking the family out for the day or longer is a great thing to do. The man and I derive so much pleasure from having the kids on the boat and watching them thrive in this environment. It is the stuff of rich memories for all of us and simply cannot be measured by mere dollar value. In a perfect world, we would therefore like to continue our yachting with them. Monopoly, anyone?
However, there are questions that need answering here. The first one is: would keeping the boat mean saying goodbye to semi -retiring in the foreseeable future? We aren’t sure: perhaps if we employ some lateral thinking, we would be able to sort out a way to keep the boat and semi-retire? Indeed, there are options: we could move onto the boat, give up work entirely, rent the house and sail off. * Maybe? Maybe not?
The second question is: does the boat actually meet the family’s needs? It is a big, serious boat that is capable of going offshore. Yes, it fits everyone on, but maybe something smaller would be a better match for us, and more doable?
Lastly, if we do keep it, we need to make the best use of it. No point in it sitting in the marina getting a weedy bottom!
Yes, some serious thinking is in order. In the fullness of time, our wants and needs will align of course, and we will choose the best way forward for us.
*This option always becomes very attractive after a slightly off day at work!